Dec 10
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Getting Back with Your Ex in 2011………..
Can you believe 2010 is nearly over with ?? Where in the World did it go so fast ? It just seemed like yesterday we were cracking the champagne bottle for 2010.
Anyway,this is a great time to clean the slate and start over fresh in the crazy World that we live in. Many of you are trying to get back with your Ex back with no avail.
I think the first thing you need to do is ask yourself whether you truly want to get back with your Ex. Some people get caught up in the hype of it all and if they were dumped by their Ex its more that thats the reason rather than they truly just love their Ex. We all have been thru this before. Getting dumped is no fun at all. It bruises ones ego and can have an adverse effect on you for a long time. Unfortunately many confuse this bruised ego with legitimate feeling towards their Ex. Well, DON”T !! Just move on and there will be other fish in the sea.
Now if you can truly say you love your ex and that you have true feelings for them then pursuing them may be worth your while.
I think the best approach is to let things cool down for awhile. Dont let your Ex know you are still interested in them to soon. You dont want to look desperate !! And if you pursue them too soon this will look like you are. Just go on with your Life and let your Ex know you are going forward, WITHOUT them ! Over time if you see them enough, things will start to take shape if your Ex is still interested in you. They will start wondering more about you and check up on you more often. Still play it cool and continue on with your Life. After a while if your Ex still has feelings for you they will reach out to you. This is when you can reach back to them and start a dialogue.
Now sooner or later things will be back to the way they were and you can be upfront and honest to your Ex and let them know how you really feel.
So there you go. Just play it relaxed for awhile and let you Ex work their way back to you.
Happy New Years !! 