One of these wrong approaches is called premature reconciliation. Many of us have been guilty of this.

You know what I mean………You get your Ex to have a cup of tea at lunch time with you. You finally seem to be getting some headway. The conservation starts out light and innocent enough. Then you start to ask uneasy questions about your relationship. This in turn ignites your Exe’s emotions , turning a 20 minute conversation into an hour or two calamity. This is the wrong thing to do and will get you nowhere. It will in no doubt scare your Ex away !!

Remember to Keep it light and ease back into your Exe’s LIfe in a subtle and genuine way !!

Another scenario that is all too common is getting intimate too early and too soon. Women especially will do this. They are excited to see their Ex and before you know it they are being romantically intimate with them.
This is a huge no no as you are letting parts of your body other than your brain do the talking

Just remember to keep your head on straight and dont push things too fast when trying to get your ex back !! Whether that be a girlfriend/boyfriend , marriage etc..etc..

One of the best ways to deal with this and to get back your ex is to possess a Passive/ Aggressive attitude. What do I mean by Passive/Aggressive ?? Well, it is simply knowing and exhibiting a passive personality when the occasion calls for it and exhibiting an aggressive personality when the occasion calls for it.

Confused ?? Okay . Here is a general blueprint of this strategy. When you first breakup with your Ex and it was something you really didnt want, it is best to start out with a Passive attitude. In other wards play the situation cool and calm and dont let your new Ex see you sweat. Make them feel like breaking up with them was in your best interest. This will sooner or later get your Ex wondering whether they should have actually broken up with you. And the calmness and passiveness will in many cases get your Ex to desire to have you back. This is NOT always a guarantee but it is a real possibility.

After awhile when your Ex starts to show some interest in you then you can start getting a little more of the Aggressive personality.

Once you see you have your Ex where you want them to pounce on them like a Tiger. Tell them you are also having feelings for them and that you want to also get back together with them.

Just play it by ear and you will have a really good chance of getting your Ex back !! The one thing you have to remember is that this can sometimes take time. So be patient and let things work out properly 

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Here are a few Ways to work on getting your Ex back :

One of the best ways to get your ex back is to stop what you are doing and take a step back and take a mental inventory. Many times people will find that if they do the exact opposite of what they are doing then they will have a legitimate chance of getting their ex back.

One of the biggest tips you can do is to stop all contact with your Ex.
Lets  face it guys no one and I  mean no one wants a needy and desperate Ex to deal with and many times this will drive the Ex that much farther away.

The best thing you can do is show confidence about yourself and let everyone know that you are a strong person who is destined for great things.

What you need to do is contact your Ex and let them no you have no hard feelings towards them and that you are ready to move on and tell them being friends with them is fine with you. The more relaxed about the whole situation you are the more likely the Ex will want you back that much more. After this break all contact with them !!

Then start to spend more time with family and friends and just simply smell the roses in Life. This will really get your Ex wondering about whether they should have separated from you or not.

Also get the word out to mutual friends that you are living a happy Life and that you are seeing other people. Dont over do it but just create a little buzz going that will get your Ex curious.

After awhile your Ex will wonder how and why you are so happy and the chances are good that they will contact you.

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